Category: General BDSM Information

Submission is an action of personal strength. To overcome internal resistance the submissive must control their desire or need to maintain personal control in the creation and delivery of all personal decisions. They must overcome the need to express or deliver their personal judgment as the basis for creating, directing and taking self action. They must overcome their desire to ACT defensively...

We all know what we want and we all know that, mostly, we'll get some of it and not all of it. Occasionally I talk to people who say they've ticked off every box on their wish list when it comes to a person to share themselves with but, frankly, I treat those people in a similar way to the ones that insist Elvis lives. With great suspicion. It's not that I don't believe there is a perfect partner...

Anticipate: To feel or realize beforehand; foresee: Need: A condition or situation in which something is required or wanted Anticipation of needs is one aspect of submission that my Master expects from me and I do believe that there are many other dominants who expect the same effort. When I went forth and asked a few people what anticipation of needs meant to dominants and how a submissive...

First off, Thank you for asking MoU and myself to help you with your questions. We really appreciate the opportunity to express ourselves to anyone who wishes to know more about us. Next, a warning, you will not find my answer straight away. LOL! Because I feel I need to give you a bit of background information. I also need to start typing away...to get my thoughts going. Then the answers you...

Jealousy is a negative emotion and can cause a great deal of trouble in a relationship. Jealousy can rip a relationship apart if it gets out of control and jealousy may cause us to lose our partner. Losing them is the very thing we are most afraid of when we are jealous, is it not? We have the right to feel jealous. How we express jealousy is another matter. We do not have the right to control...

This is something that is close to my heart. I was sitting here wondering what in the world to write about (I have a list of over 40 blog post topics I want to write about but my decision making skills are REALLY bad) when I thought about Daddy not being here tonight again. So now I’m listening to the My Little Pony version of Katy Pery’s California Gurls (and an assortment of other MLP...