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I love popping session-cherry, but first-timers are notoriously flakey, disrespectful and annoying to deal with in the pre-session stage. I know most of these problems are due to ignorance and nervousness rather than plain douchebaggery, so I wrote this guide to help you out. In the time I’ve had it on my site, many clients have told me that they found it very helpful. Hopefully you will too. 

Some notes before we start.

Because I am basing this on my personal experiences, this guide is definitely slanted towards NYC newbs contacting independent Dominas. However, most of this also applies if you are booking through a Dungeon or if you are elsewhere in the world.

This guide is aimed at newbies but you may find it helpful if the Mistresses you see tend to respond negatively to you, or if you frequently have trouble booking sessions.

If you have a brain in your head, most of this is pretty obvious. You’d be surprised at how much difficulty some people have figuring it out on their own.

Before you contact Her

Know what you want.

I have had this conversation more times than I can count:

“Hi. I’d like to book a session.”

“Okay. What are your interests?”

“I’m not sure.”

“Can you give me some idea?”

“Uh, no, it’s my first time…”

There’s nothing wrong  with being uncertain about your desires. Helping you learn about your desires is part of my job. That said, my sessions vary widely and I need at least some idea of what you’re into before I agree to see you. You might be into something I have no interest in, and then we’re both wasting our time.

Men see sex workers for a variety of reasons, but the most common is good old-fashioned horniness. You could have called a prostitute or a “massage” parlor. You could have gone to a strip club and looked at tits. Instead, you called me. There must be something that inspired that choice.

 

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