30Jul

Understanding Sexual Fetishes And Paraphilias

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Beginner BDSM Information Fetish Facts

By Rosalyn Sternberg Originally Posted on the The Kinsey Institute™ According to a recent Psychology Today editorial, there’s no such thing as a fetish. Their reasoning? In an era of search terms and niche pornography, researchers find that most adult-website users demonstrate consistent, specific sexual preferences. Naturally, understandings of “normal human sexuality” are always in […]

11May

Hotwife/Cuckolding - a Naughty Author’s Perspective

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An Article Modified Exclusively for A Submissive’s Initiative™ by Sophie Avett Merry met oh-wicked-ones, I’m Sophie. I write craptastic books. And I’m a kinky. Let’s talk about what we all care about, shall we? What is hotwife/cuckholding? You know, I’m kind of surprised whenever this comes up. No, really. If you break this puppy out […]

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19Oct

Am I Kinky Enough? (Your Kink Is Not My Kink and That’s Okay)

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Beginner BDSM Information Fetish Facts General BDSM Information

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Over the past 18+ months ASI has helped hundreds, if not thousands, of people discover who they are within the bondage community. We get many different degrees of “kinky” people that contact us with questions regarding their specific kinks and that gives me the wonderful opportunity to expand my knowledge on lesser known fetishes and […]

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12Sep

Race Play and Being a Black Submissive

Posted by: DeShanna Categories: Beginner BDSM Information Fetish Facts

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What is BDSM? The simple definition, as found through Wikipedia, is a variety of erotic practices involving Dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics 1 There under this umbrella terminology includes relationships. D/s (Dominant/submissive), M/s (Master/slave), and Tops/bottoms. In this post, the discussion will focus on being a submissive or slave in the […]

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29Aug

Shocking Tips to Electrosex Stimulation

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Most people have played with some kind of vibrator. Do you remember the first time you applied one (or had one applied) to your genitals? Felt pretty good didn’t it? At the least, it was something new and different. Electrostimulation is a lot like that only even more unique. It’s a wonderful way to add […]

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20May

Tantra and BDSM…..Wait, What?

Posted by: misssubmistressrose Categories: Beginner BDSM Information Fetish Facts General BDSM Information

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Why might Tantric practices be considered a part of BDSM? Well, there are several reasons why I think it fits in very well. I could talk about this in great length and detail, but for the sake of this article, I will try to keep it simple and to the point, lightly touching on what I […]

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20Apr

The Medical Realities of Breath Control Play

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For some time now, I have felt that the practices of suffocation and/or strangulation done in an erotic context (generically known as breath control play; more properly known as asphyxiophilia) were in fact far more dangerous than they are generally perceived to be. As a person with years of medical education and experience, I […]

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20Apr

List of Fetishes and Paraphilia

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A Abasiophilia: arousal for people with impaired mobility. Ablutophilia: arousal from showers and baths. Acomoclitism: sexual arousal from hairless genitalia. Agalmatophilia: similar to technosexuality; the sexual arousal for mannequins or statues.

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