Keep Calm and Squirt On!

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Since one of my first sexual experiences was with a girl that was more than a gusher, I have been interested in female ejaculation. There is nothing more flattering than an earful of screaming ecstasy and scratches on my back, followed by an earth-shattering squirting orgasm that soaks through the bed. I love to know my partner is satisfied. When I leave her lying there breathless, covered in cum, sweat, and her own female ejaculation fluid, there is nothing more fulfilling. Nothing makes me feel more manly. I have female friends that say they can’t do it and guy friends that say they haven’t been with a girl that can squirt. This is why I would like to share my findings with my fellow kinksters as a public service.

Good news, after a lot of reading and “research” I have found out that most women are able to squirt!! My personal experience is that the majority of females can achieve this (although some squirt more easily than others who may just need a little extra “TLC” or coaching). Hopefully this writing helps you along the way. Before we get into the fun part of squirting, let’s talk about the anatomy and common misconceptions of female ejaculation.

Back To School You Naughty Girl

Where does female ejaculate come from you ask?

Well, when you are stimulated there is a buildup of ejaculation fluid in a gland called the Skene’s gland. This wonderful gland is connected to your urethra and is located close to the bladder near the entrance of the vagina right next to your G-spot. There are two of them located on each side of the urethral opening. This is why sometimes while having good sex or pleasuring yourself, and hitting your G-spot, you feel like you have to pee. This brings us to the common misconception that female ejaculation is urine. It is not! As your G-spot is stimulated the Skene’s fills and then releases the fluid through your urethra, hence the misunderstanding. The most important lesson here is; when you have the “I need to pee” feeling, it is vital to relax and mentally give in to the pleasurable feeling you are having, because it is totally normal when you are about to squirt (Write that down).

This is also the biggest hurdle stopping you from squirting. You are holding back and not giving in to the experience. You absolutely need to relax to be able to release into the feeling. Also another misconception is that you always orgasm and squirt at the same time. For some this is not the case. Women have reported squirting without an actual orgasm, so don’t worry if this happens. Every woman is different and you will all squirt in different ways. For some it’s just a trickle and for others it’s a stream, and for a few it’s like a super soaker squirting across the room. So, now that our research is done it’s time for your homework, let the gushing begin!!

Squirt For Me You Slut

One of the most iconic squirters in the porn industry, “Cytherea,” once said she has gotten severely dehydrated from squirting so much!! This is why it is important to hydrate a couple of hours prior to activity. So I want to get a bottle of water and drink it first. Make sure you use the restroom before you do anything so you have an empty bladder. The next thing you will need to do is make yourself comfortable and make sure you will not be disturbed during your session so you may fully concentrate. Once you’re ready, try to fantasize about something that really turns you on. Maybe watch Cytherea in action, read some erotica (check out my writing called Please Sir Punish Me), or have a partner help! Once you get in the mood it’s time for pleasure to begin.

I want you to slowly play with your clit and caress yourself all over. You will need this build up before the gushing begins. Please pleasure yourself for 10-30 minutes, but don’t cum until I say so. I want you to get yourself close, I mean really close. You may call this edging, which is something I absolutely love to do!! Are you ready to cum for me? Great! Let’s take this to next level now that you are ready for the practice test.

Let’s Penetrate That Pussy

Now that you are so excited you can’t stand teasing yourself any longer, I want us to now focus on making you squirt. You will first need to find your G-spot. Your G-spot is on the inside of your pussy about two to three inches on the front wall close to your pubic bone. It will feel like bumpy ridges and rougher than the rest of you inner vaginal walls. Keep in mind the more you are aroused the larger your G-spot will be and will start to overlap into your vaginal canal.

Let’s start by slowly applying pressure to your G-spot. You can first try your fingers and if they are too short or your wrist starts to hurt, a great inexpensive toy I like to use is the “slim G line” vibrator. I want you to experiment and indulge the feeling you’re having. Try applying more pressure. Every woman is different so you will need to figure out exactly how you like it. My experience is when you apply more pressure to the G-spot you will also stimulate the Skene’s gland. When this happens, you’ll bring yourself even closer to squirting. At this point you should feel close to ejaculating and it is crucial that you give into this feeling and not be afraid to release.

If you are afraid to let go, or get frustrated, it won’t happen for you. Now I want you to squirt for me baby! Play hard on that G-spot, fuck yourself, feel your body tense up. Hold your breath, feel the blood rush to your head and let your eyes rolls back. Let yourself go, scream at the top of your lungs, and for some extra credit try rubbing your clit nice and fast when you start to squirt!!! Mmmmm…Good girl!! Congratulations you’ve passed the test!! You deserve to be proud of yourself so relax and curl up under your blanket with that big goofy smile we all know and love.

I hope you had a good experience and enjoyed yourself. With this newly found gift go forth and have a squirtastic life. Class is out but for the day girls but if you weren’t able to squirt this time it will take practice and maybe some after school tutoring.

If At First You Don’t Succeed, Try, Try Again

Is it not happening? It’s okay; this is not something that happens easily or even at all for some. Don’t focus on this, instead I want you to enjoy yourself and focus completely on the pleasure of this experience. It can take several attempts to figure out what works best for you and to discover the technique to make it happen. Maybe you need a partner to help. Well give that a try! I will be posting some techniques to try with a partner in the near future if you all enjoyed this writing. I would love hear if this helps you as well.

-Ronin Payne

A Special Note from Sophie Avett: (Everyone wails, “Hi Sophie!”) Sir Ronin is not the type to brag about himself. So, I’m going to do it for him. Sir Ronin Payne is a practicing Dominant, and a loving Alpha of a polyamorous relationship. He has a wonderful submissive, and a lovely trainee, and they all live happily ever after. He’s a take charge kind of man in life, he wears nice pants, and I believe him to be one of the most knowledgeable people I’ve met on the subject of human sexuality and it’s endless (and wonderful) applications. To check out more of Sir Ronin’s writings, please feel free to find him on Fetlife (HouseofPayne). Many thanks!

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